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PARENT'S GUIDE:
ACCESSING PARENT GROUPS
By Suzanne Ripley
What
about future meetings and activities?
Be
sure to communicate clearly with your membership. Ask from time
to time whether members want to change the meeting place or time.
Also ask about issues of concern to your members and for their ideas
for speakers or topics of discussion. Encourage members to share
their opinions and ideas, and to ask for information when they are
in doubt about whatever is being discussed. Remember to debate the
issues, not the persons who present them.
As
your group becomes more established, there may be other questions
to consider. Many possible questions are listed below. Although
not all will be relevant to your group, this list may help the group
decide upon future activities or directions.
- What
are your group's long-term goals?
- What
do your members want to learn more about?
- Do
you want to offer or participate in training programs?
- Who
will arrange for speakers or topics for the meetings?
- Who
will contact members and advertise the meetings?
- Do
you want people to be able to reach your group by phone?
-
Whose number will they call?
- Do
you need to provide child care at the meetings?
- Who
will do this or arrange it?
- Will
you provide refreshments at the meetings?
- How
will you pay for this?
- Do
you want to start and send out a newsletter?
- Who
will write it? Type it? Mail it?
- How
will you pay for the newsletter and postage?
- Will
this work be done on a volunteer basis or will someone need to
be hired?
- How
much money do you think you'll need to carry out your plans?
- Do
you plan to raise money and/or apply for funds?
- Will
you need to make this a formal organization?
- Will
you need to write by-laws?
- Do
you need to apply to the IRS for tax-exempt status? Do you need
an auditor?
- Do
you have someone with experience in organizing nonprofit groups
to help formalize your group?
- What
if only a few close people show up for the meeting?
Don't
confuse interest or effectiveness with numbers. Some topics only
attract a small audience, but they may be of great interest and
importance to those people. In general, more people will say they
can attend than actually get there; there are many difficulties
that may prevent people from attending, including childcare, illness,
transportation, schedule conflicts, weather, or just plain exhaustion.
Large attendance is not the key to success.
However,
if attendance is regularly lower than the membership, there are
several explanations. Some people join groups for reasons other
than attending all the meetings. They may join to receive a newsletter,
to be a part of a group that is working for the benefit of their
child, or to attend only one or two meetings of special interest,
or they may simply not have the energy to go back out at night even
though they are impressed with the mission and work of the group.
You
also should be careful to avoid scheduling meetings at busy times;
consider experimenting with a variety of times and days, interspersing
informational meetings with more social gatherings, and regularly
surveying your membership for suggestions on meeting times, locations,
and topics.
How
do we keep up interest?
A
group is made up of members who may have distinct ideas of what's
interesting, needed, or convenient. Be sure to keep communications
open, and try to elicit ideas and participation from all members.
A group managed entirely by a few members, runs the risk of not
only overworking their leaders but also having no pool of upcoming
leaders to carry on the work. Next year's success or even the continuation
of your group will depend upon identifying new leaders and new volunteers
and upon maintaining a sense of interest and commitment.
To
keep your leaders from burning out, and to provide opportunities
for new leadership, you may want to:
-
Form committees to address different activities;
-
Share and delegate the tasks to be performed;
- Have
as many people actively involved as possible;
- Have
one-time-only activities that members can choose from.
Many
people cannot commit themselves to one more activity, but will certainly
help out for an hour or two. It is also useful to discuss your mission
every year, and redirect it, if necessary. Schools change, communities
change, your membership may change, and children are certainly always
changing. What is important one year may not be a burning issue
next year. Examining the mission of your group can play a critical
role in assessing your successes, learning from your mistakes, identifying
new goals and needs, redirecting your efforts, and maintaining and
renewing members' interest in the group.
Some
groups may form to address a specific goal, such as providing an
accessible playground or establishing an information center. When
this goal is accomplished, the group may choose to disband. That's
okay, too. Be sure to let NICHCY know about your group, so we can
be part of the same network. Put us on your mailing list, and we
will add your name to ours.
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